The Power of Positive Words

Our thought and words have a great influence on how we feel about ourselves and others. Children respond to words that give positive encouragement and these will empower them to do well. Negative words usually result in them feeling despondent, unworthy and unable to cope with what is expected of them.

Your subconscious mind works through your thoughts, so have happy and positive thoughts to help ensure a happy positive outcome for yourself and your family.

Negative Disempowering Words Positive Empowering Words
Should
You Must
Have to
I Can’t
Try
Too hard
I can’t afford it
I can’t believe it
Don’t forget
Don’t drop that
I’m sick and tired
I’m dying to
I am no good at that
Bad shot
I’m too busy
I can’t wait
I don’t deserve this
You are a pain in the neck
I am unlucky
Hyperactive
You’re a daydreamer
Irritable
Argumentative
No one likes me
You’re being naughty
You’re selfish
I’m no good at ball games
Can or could
I would like you to
I want you to
I will do my best
Do your best
It gets easier with practice
My money is going on other things
It is amazing
Please remember
Hold it carefully
I need to change
I really want to
I can do better
You can do better
I will make the time
I am looking forward to
I am worthy of this
Your actions could be better
I deserve better
Energetic
You’re imaginative
Sensitive
Independent
It takes time to make friends
You can behave better
You need to share more
I need to practice my ball skills

Page updated 22 Aug 2007

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